I know I haven't posted in a while (and I know I haven't visited many blogs, which I am SO SORRY for. I'm coming for you guys and your awesome posts.)
But today I saw a competition and it's a great, full of YOU SEND US BOOK AND IF WE LIKE WE PUBLISH vibes. My first thought was I can't enter. My writing isn't good enough. My writing isn't ready yet. Give me a couple more months.
My second thought was SMALL PRINT! SMALL PRINT! WHERE'S THE SMALL PRINT! Is there a clause that says they're going to take my manuscript from me forever, have all the rights to every future book I shall ever publish, and that that they are going to eat my left hand?
THEN I thought why can't I just query the darned thing?
Which brought me back to MY BABY IS NOT READY.
And here's the thing: it will never be ready. At some point you'll have to acknowledge it's time to submit. Which lead me to work out something VERY important.
1) A publisher would never want to eat my left hand. The right hand is always more popular in modern day society (which is sad, considering I'm left handed.)
2) TO BE A WRITER, YOU MUST BE BRAVE.
You must not compare yourself to other writers. You must not run blind into every publishing opportunity that presents itself. At some point, you may find yourself straying from the "standard" path for writers.
THAT IS FINE.
As a writer, you must let go of your insecurities that people will judge you because you went this way into publishing, instead of that way. Or that they'll judge you if your writing isn't award worthy.
Because as a writer, you just want to share your words with other people. (Of course, some choose writing as a career as a way to make money and earn a living, and not out of a love for writing.) But whatever.
I'm not very brave. It took me months to start up a twitter account because I was worried people would judge me for having a low amount of followers. Ditto my Facebook account, both private and personal.
BUT IN THE END I DID IT., and I realized what I'd been missing out on.
So take risks. Do new things. Or you'll never experience anything.
And don't tell me you're not brave. If you wrote a book, you're brave. You defied the stats which say no one ever finishes a book. If you want to get published, you're brave, because you're not paying attention to the odds.
So BE BRAVE, you lovely people. And thanks, for listening to someone who is really trying to practice what they say. And sorry for this really long post. Thank you for reading.
This was really inspiring, Ravena. I have a smile on my face, and I'm ready to start climbing that mountain! :D
ReplyDeleteYou go, girl. Go for your dreams!
And it's wonderful to have you back to blogging, for as long as you're able.
It's nice to be back! I feel all happy and blog-ey again! Thanks for your comment :)
DeleteRavena, I've missed you! Glad to see you're still pursuing writing stuff.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure we've all read plenty of books that don't fit the mold. I'll read one book, love it, then pick up another that's written totally differently. Wow. This one is weird... but then I love that one, too. So comparing ourselves to others in the writing world is pretty fruitless. Glad you've figured that out while you're still young. ; )
I missed me too! And I missed reading your blog - I'd forgotten how funny it is! The thing about books is that they're all different and what works for one person might never work for another - just like in real life! :D
DeleteBravery is so very important in this business - every business - and life! :) It's a good lesson to learn, and love (of writing, of people) is always the best way to overcome fear.
ReplyDeleteWell said!
DeleteI think I've read something somewhere about how bravery is something that comes after you do things, and not before. When it comes to writing and submitting, you just have to do these things, even when it totally scares you, and then, afterwards, you realize that it's not really that bad, and the next time you do it, it's just that tiny bit easier. It wasn't so long ago that I wanted to be a writer, but I was scared of actually starting to write anything. Then, somehow, I wrote a novel. I did that, and then I was scared that it wasn't any good, and that I would never write anything else. Now, I have an idea for a new novel, and I've been writing and revising every day, and I'm starting to really believe that, yes, I can do this. Focusing on just one step at a time is what helps me to overcome my fears.
ReplyDeleteYES YOU CAN DO THIS! "The Way North" has some really intriguing parts to it and a few times I found myself skimming ahead to see what happened next! I'm very glad you got over your fear :)
DeleteI've always been a fan of the take baby steps motto, mainly because of my procrastination issues. Doing big tasks really scare me! :D
You're so sweet - of course we read your posts! You're interesting and funny, a dynamite combo. It's good to be brave, but I think there's a difference between bravery and confidence. As a person who's been overly brave and gotten into messes, I'd rather just be confident.
ReplyDeleteGood luck to you, and don't get into messes! :-)
I'll try not to! :) (Though I am a very messy person :D)
DeleteIt is important to take that leap of faith as writers, but we also need to do our homework with regards to finding the right publisher. Check on-line about the ones you're thinking about submitting to and find out what other writers' experiences were like. Our 'babies' may never seem to be ready for that first big step but, like any toddler, we have to let go of their hands and allow them to venture off on their own. Good luck with your ventures! :)
ReplyDeleteThanks for your advice! (That analogy about toddlers is great :D)
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